I’m gay, my sister was the only one I told because we were the closest of all my siblings but she made my life hell and cuht me off. We haven’t even said “Hi” to each other for 4 years but the other siblings talk to me even though they know my sexuality but my sister who I loved the most just cuht me off. That aside, the issue now is that she’s getting married this January, she didn’t invite me but my brother did and sent me their pre wedding photos and her husband to be is someone that I’ve hooked up with when I was still in Enugu. I don’t even know if I should tell her, my friends said I should mind my business since she didn’t invite me. Will she even believe me or term it that I’m jealous, I’m confused.

Sister’s Fiancé 2

Update: Like most comments said I should tell sister about her DL fiance and i did but all hell broke loose. To my greatest surprise, she didn’t doubt me or say that I’m jealous, I guess there’ve been signs before I told her. She just asked one question “Can you say and defend this in front of him” I said yes. So, she confronted him and he said all sorts, that I’m a devil trying to come between them. I’m jealous, that I’m a liar trying to sabotage their marriage. When I heard that, I booked my flight to enugu and came in front of him, before that I put call to my friends in the community in enugu and they gathered a few evidence, nothing much but was enough to prove that I’m telling the truth. Though none of that was needed because even before I presented the evidence, he said “he used to do it before but he has given his life to christ and he hasn’t done it since they got together” she doesn’t know what to do yet though guests have not been uninvited so I guess she’s still considering the marriage. We haven’t had a conversation so I’m still cut off and after the whole thing played out, I really got to reflect if i told her because I care about her or because I was so mad at her. I love my sister so much and I’m still hurt about how easily she cut me off.