I met this guy last year and it was great, he wanted us to do a long distance relationship. I wasn’t certain because that’s how my previous relationship ended but I decided to give it a try, I was still skeptical. He is amazing, a good listener, and he had 70% of what I needed in a guy. It was good until the end of October, when I shared my plans to leave the country if the opportunity arose and how difficult it had been to secure a job. He was aware of all these things because I never kept anything from him and I was as open as an adult could be and he appreciated and respected that about me. Suddenly, his energy towards me changed after sharing that with him, he said he’s not certain about us anymore and I shouldn’t wait for him even when I offered to. Although, something happened I can’t say what but it’s not an excuse. I can’t believe something so good just ended. I really don’t know what I said or did but I guess it’s as good as over. I still have hopes he’ll come back to me but I think that’s just copium and I try my best every day to move past it.