This life marry good man o. Marry a kind man, leave traditional men for other men. Marry a man that supports you in any way he can. Me like this I’ve won in life, my husband is amazing. He has taught me what masculinity is, masculinity is not loud and forceful. It’s actually soft and peaceful, emi hard girl. He would just speak softly to me and I’m gone. I melt like butter in his hands. I’ve been ill for a few days and he was so great mehn, now I’m feeling better and just thinking about the way he treated me is getting me in the mood 😉