I used to think I was only a little insecure, but I’m realizing now it was deeper than that. Recently, I came across posts from past admirers, and they’re either married or in relationships with chubby women. I’m a chubby woman, yet back then I convinced myself they didn’t genuinely like me. Because they looked so good, I assumed their interest wasn’t real. I can’t blame myself entirely with 1 of them, his ex was slim-thick but since then he’s been dating chubby women. I didn’t miss out on anything, and I’m happily married now but this showed me I still have some inner work to do.