Is it wrong to go for who you like, I hear people say reach out to him if you like him and it ended in shame. I have never dated any man for money but why do I keep meeting wrong men. My ex went with my $100 and this new guy I met in church it’s more like I should not have reached out. I’m hating myself, I’m tired. I am a hardworking lady, I tried my better with just the help of God but why do I have to keep suffering. I don’t sleep around yet I keep meeting the wrong ones. My friends said I’m too churchy, I loosen up and I end up getting myself hurt