I met a new guy in another African country because I’m done with Nigerian men. This guy is so good, so attentive and we talk for long and long hours. Problem is this guy disappears during odd hours, like sometimes throughout the day or during weekends but we have long midnight calls on other days. I know he likes me as we are not in a relationship yet but it’s confusing because he has an excuse for every disappearance and they kindof add up. For example, he got arrested once, another time he got admitted in the hospital, i dont know if I’m stupid