I’m wondering if my neighbors see me as a fool because I’m a giver. Every time they come into my house, one walks straight to my fridge or grabs anything she sees, another takes any food stuff she spots, and the third asks me what I cooked so she can take some for herself and “my baby” (her child) because she isn’t cooking for the night and I’ve never even been inside their houses because I don’t pass my boundaries. I live in a self‑con so most of my stuff are in my room and I honestly don’t know how to stop this behavior because it’s becoming too much and it’s starting to irritate me.