Marriage should have a yearly renewal clause, this cannot be a forever thing. Finding out your partner has cheated on you with multiple people and could still be, even after apologising and saying he would stop because he was caught and confronted. Them apologising and wanting to get back to having conversations with you like as if nothing happened and how you should be all over them and forget everything. Marriage of less than 2years. Trying so hard to not be vindictive and plan a painful revenge. Divorcing and becoming a single mother is an easy way out for them, knowing how non-challant and dismissive they are. God help me. People know what they are doing.