I’m 19 and my boyfriend is 24, I’m a very beautiful girl with a nice physique and my boyfriend is very cute. The guy has a car and he’s a forex trader, he also has other side jobs. He’s been chasing me since July, i met him on Instagram but we were just off and on, so we finally met around October and the first day I slept over at his place but we didn’t have sex. I told him i was on my period because i didn’t want anything to happen. I’m a virgin and I’m not ready for sex yet, but we kissed and touched ourselves. We were still in contact after our first meeting, my birthday passed but he didn’t get me any gifts, i didn’t take is seriously because we weren’t dating. The 2nd time we were supposed to meet he said that I’ll be the one to sponsor us. We went on an ice cream date and i paid for it and then i slept over at his place and i told him that i wasn’t ready for sex that we’ll do it next time when we meet, we even bathed together. After that we didn’t meet until 3 weeks later because i kept persuading him for us to meet and he said that’s he’s expecting a huge sum of money that when he gets it that we’ll meet. I told him that before we’ll have sex that he has to ask me out first because he keeps acting as if we’re in a relationship. This guy has never taken me out on a date before, this guy has never given me gifts or even send me money before but he always flaunts his wealth. I slept over at his place again last week but i was on my period so we didn’t have sex, that was when he asked me out. I asked him why he never gifts me or taken me out on a date and he said that he doesn’t have money that when he has he’ll do more for me, he keeps talking about how he’ll disflower me when next we meet. This guy only sends me transport fare when i ask him and it doesn’t exceed #5k, and he buys me food only when i sleep over at his place, i feel he doesn’t love me. I don’t want someone that doesn’t love me to disvirgin me, I really want to have sex but not with the wrong person. What pained me the most was when i asked him to get me food when i was leaving his place he said he doesn’t have money but he was showing me his transaction history on his OPay account and i saw like #6m there as in on the transaction history and the money he has spent this month was #3m. I really love him but i don’t want to be used. I feel he doesn’t love me, i feel like after we have sex that he’ll just dump me. My ex that i was dating before he died normally sends Uber to pick me up and even when i want to spend on him he doesn’t even let me, my ex gifts me back to back and even sends me money without asking, he was so caring, kind, attentive, cute, and understanding, good guys are really rare. My ex is even younger(20) than my boyfriend but he treats me better, I really miss my ex. There’re guys out there that want me but i still choose this guy, even the smallest gift he hasn’t given me.