4years relationship. I earn well & he’s okay but nonchalant, i did everything myself, no gifts, no surprises, no support, when he’s in need i support & understand but he never returns the energy. Work issues arose & realized i’ve been alone, i needed funds so bad, when money came he never thought of me, he spent on irrelevant things, saying it wasn’t enough. He never asked how i managed. I told him he was wicked, days later he calls to asks me to borrow him #20k 😭😭😭