Do girls that have boyfriends that spend on them have 2 heads, why is my own different. Ordinary #14k that I asked my man to pay for something, he is telling me I should wait and that he has stuff to sort out first for ordinary #14k o. This is a man in his 30’s that can’t provide ordinary #14k, and I have never billed him before, instead I’m the one always buying stuff for him because gifting is my love language.