He’s 38 and I’m 25. He’s divorced with a child abroad. We’ve been getting serious, though I haven’t visited him in Abuja yet, we only meet when he comes to my city. Recently, during a chat about past relationships, he mentioned a “favorite ex.” Not long after, he accidentally sent a post to both me and that same ex, he quickly removed me, and claimed it was an office group. After days of going back and forth, he admitted they once “had a thing”and not exes. Out of curiosity, I checked her page and found a gym video and I saw his back view.