I’m a 21 year old woman that’s confused about life, I’ve been at home for 2years because I had to defer my admission for the sake of the financial mess I and my family are in, I’m a last born and an only girl of three brothers. Of recent I got a job in a neighboring state that pays well sort of, and I told my mum about it and she said I’m going nowhere because my elder brother said so, but I just want to figure out my life and do something for myself or my family, I’m tired of staying at home doing nothing, I think I’m going to have to disobey them and go for it 😪