I’ve been dating my boyfriend since I entered university, he’s my first, and we’re still together now that we’re both working and we are both doing fine. He clearly loves me; he shows it in his actions, talks about me to everyone, and protects me. I love him too, but sometimes I’m not sure anymore. I’ve never cheated, but I often find questionable messages on his phone reoccurring times. He always says they’re nothing, and though I’ve never caught him being physically unfaithful, the texts make me doubt. Recently, I’ve developed a crush on someone else. I don’t know if I should end things, but I’m scared of leaving what I know for something uncertain. I also don’t have the energy to start a new talking stage. Plus what if I switch from gen to nepa and nepa fumble