Please having a child for a rich married man (he claims he’s gonna marry me, but I don’t want to scatter another woman’s home, only in for the extra cash) and waiting on a single guy who doesn’t know what he wants (we’ve been talking for over a year! The last thing I want to do is use pregnancy to hold any man down ). Which should I go for? I’m 30 and have been advised to have a child soon because I did fibroid surgery a year ago. I am doing well for myself but at the same time I want my child to have a father figure. Have tried looking for other guys to settle down with but I don’t find myself liking any of them. The one I like isn’t doing the right thing.