I was getting serious with this 40+ divorcee and was ready to settle down, till I discovered he was chatting (telling her to leave her husband and how much he loves her) and having phone sex with his ex girlfriend who is now married in the UK, it had started even before we met. Now everyone is begging me, including my mum and aunties, that it’s not enough reason to leave the relationship and that he didn’t really mean it like that and he is sorry. Abeg I no do again, I wan settle ni before but as i see this one, I pick race