No one talks about the loneliness that comes with marriage. Men often think providing basic needs is all that matters in marriage. Being with someone that is emotionally unavailable is frustrating and once you complain they tag you nagging. I can’t remember the last time I had a conversation with my husband without us arguing, also we are both sexually incompatible. He prefers rough sex and me I prefer it slow. Everything about him is rough and unromantic. I dated this guy for 5 years and only got flowers once, that was the day he proposed. Mind you, he has the money but you don’t see it. I often see posts of women cheating on their husbands and most times I don’t blame them. Men are eager to condemn them without trying to know what led to that. I firmly believe once a woman is treated well and respected that she won’t look elsewhere. I’m married to someone that we don’t even sleep in the same bed.