I have built up resentment towards my husband. I can’t even kiss him, and I always have this angry ick anytime we’re together. We dated for 5 years before we got married this year, and during those 5 years of dating, we were always on and off. He’s 32, and I’m 21. I just feel like I made a big mistake. Verbal abuse is worse than cheating. He has said many hurtful things to me. I’ve complained and even requested we go for couple counseling, which he refused. I’m emotionally drained, even my mum doesn’t seem to understand