I jumped from a size 10 to 14 after I gave birth. Divorced now. Been seeing this guy for close to two years now and we’ve been talking about marriage. Our conversation last night centered on why I tend to cover myself around him or when we’re intimate and I told him how the extra weight gain has made me body conscious which he’s very much aware of. In an attempt to reassure myself, I asked him if he found me physically attractive and nothing could’ve prepared me for the brutal honesty I got. Apparently he stopped “looking at beauty” a long time ago and he likes me for “my personality”. I know I’m beautiful. I’ve always been told that even with my weight gain. He was honest, a plus for him but hurt. That I am