I read the story of that guy whose girlfriend never did anything for him and he is honouring her by not having sex with her. I am experiencing the same thing (we have dated for 4.5 years), I empty my account for this girl and now and I’m at the point of leaving the relationship but she’s promising to change and be better after she saw that my colleague at work gave me an expensive perfume on my birthday (my first gift from a girl ever) while she did nothing as usual. She’s my first love and I’m scared to leave, should I manage and hope for change