For over a year, I suspected my husband was cheating. I wish I hadn’t checked his phone. The man I built a life with, father of our 4 kids, was with another man his best friend, also married with kids. The betrayal cut deeper than if it had been a woman, can’t explain the disgust and hurt I feel. I can’t tell my friends, they’d laugh. My mom asked me to seal my lips until I leave the marriage. With our lawyers present, I demanded the 4 lands and the new duplex we planned to move into. He can keep the house where it all started. He begged, calling it a mistake, but I insisted he sign the papers. For our children’s sake, I pleaded he keep his life with his boyfriend private. He can live as he chooses, discreetly, away from public eyes.