This guy I met 3 months ago, started hanging out, I enjoy his company, he’s quite knowledgeable. He’s started talking marriage with me and I’m buying the ideas, however something happened and I had to borrow his phone to make series of calls and I went through it. He texts so many girls, pays for sex, some agree, some don’t and this continued up to March 2025. Now I’m having second thoughts, this man seemed pretty decent and work focused to me, he courted me properly and never asked anything inappropriate of me till we finally became intimate, yet feels like I’ve discovered a whole new side of him from his phone. Now I have three options in my head; Deal with what I found out by confronting him and hear what he has to say. 2) Ghost him completely because that behavior is weird to me. 3) Not say anything and begin to closely monitor his activities, if I catch him, I leave.
PS: I really like this dude but I’m conflicted