There’s this feeling i’m having right now, my girl claims she’s extra busy and all, also saying she’s not mentally fine. I’m trying to understand how to cope or deal with this, and i don’t want to be selfish with my wants, i’m also going through something one way or the other and i didn’t allow her to suffer from my predicament but she’s doing same to me. Am i being selfish with my claims because she rarely has time for me now and it’s hurting so bad, this is the time i need her most but she’s been distant. Anytime she’s having one issue or the other with her life, i’m the one that suffers it. We both live in this same abuja, like 30minutes from her house to mine, an hour, 30 minutes from her work. Why’s this generation so filled with lack of emotional intelligence.