What’s the big deal about having kids. I’m happy for those that have found their true love and want to have kids together. But kids take up your time and if you’re the giving type you’ll lose your identity trying to make sure they are comfortable and try to have all their wants and needs provided for. These days it is not enough to pray for healthy, you also need to pray that you get a male son or a female daughter. Let’s not get into worrying about their future and safety always, that they’re in the right environment and in good company. So far, no one has really convinced me about kids.