Just ended a two-year relationship, and I’m feeling sad, disappointed, and angry. It’s been two days, and the emotions are still heavy. Part of me wants to forgive her, but the moment I remember what happened, I get angry again. We were both at fault, she cheated first and tried to downplay it. Out of hurt, I cheated too. Later, I confessed because I couldn’t live with it. We fought, then settled. But it happened again same guy. I found out they were still in contact and even visited each other. She begged, and I forgave her again, though I felt foolish for it. I told her clearly: if that guy came up again, I was done. Recently, I found out they were still talking, and I was the main topic of their chats. That was it I broke up with her. Now I feel torn. Guilty because I cheated too, and angry at myself for giving her another chance. I know what it means when someone visits their ex it’s not innocent. I’m wondering if I overreacted or if I’m just guilt-tripping her to justify walking away.