Normally I’m not a girl that writes all these but I’m confused. There’s this guy that just moved to my estate two months back and he’s really handsome, quiet and most of all you will hardly see him outside. He’s from my state (Anambra) and to be honest, he seems really genuine. I was the one that even made a move to talk to him. He works from home so he’s become an introvert. After talking for about 3 weeks, we went on a date then i spent some time in his house. My main problem now is i think he’s still hung up on his ex, he doesn’t talk about his ex at all whenever i bring it up, he says he doesn’t want to talk about her, that she hurt him real bad but i should just know he’s long over her. I want to believe him but my gut keeps telling me that he’s not being straightforward. I’ve really fallen for him, even started cooking for him in his house this week, something i never do for a man, but he just seems so genuine. I really want this to work but I don’t want to suffer the sins of an ex. My friends said i should not say anything again but make sure i always check his phone.