I am the oldest of six siblings. I have a 21 year age gap between me and the youngest. I was 19 when my mum had the 4th child and 21 when she had the 5th and 6th(twins). It’s really exhausting trying to figure my life out and take care of the three. I barely ever have time for myself to do things people my age do. My parents already have this expectation to take care of them as an extra parent. I honestly did not ask for this. Once I get the chance I’m running away without looking back.