Jay is everything I want in a man, he is caring, loving, puts me first and all but the problem is I’m not sexually attracted to him. I was at first and he fucks good but after the first few times if he asks I would just be like what’s wrong with this one, I might even be horny and not give in. I would rather pay a hook up guy to be with me than him. I’ve tried talking to him about it and he says we can do threesomes. I spoke to my friends and they said I should let him go that sexual attraction is important in marriage