I heard a voice note on my boyfriend’s phone, it was him telling his friend how he fucked a girl and they enjoyed it. Confronted him and he’s saying it was a joke between him and his friend, that he wanted to surprise the guy for his birthday so he had to come up with interesting gist so the guy won’t notice. I’m about to believe him, am I foolish. Is this not a gaslighting tactics and honestly I’ve been feeling fooled in my spirit lately. Like of all the things to use as interesting gist it’s you did something with a random girl. I’m confused abeg