I started seeing someone in January, he is a divorcee and I am 21. His communication skill isn’t the greatest, most especially when he has his kids and now it seems like even without them there he is just very poor with it. We only hangout and talk properly whenever I come to his place. I keep on talking about it but he will act like he has changed and go back to his default setting. Sometimes he will be consistent but most times I am the one doing the texting, calling and he won’t respond until a day or 2 days later. He also promises me a lot and never does anything just procrastination and it’s not as if he doesn’t have it. These are things that I never asked for just him saying he will do it. The only thing I ask for is communication and dates, the dates are not even restaurants. Stuff like skating, going to the museum and game arcades . I’m genuinely tired of all the hanky panky he is doing and I really don’t know what else to do. I’m thinking of ghosting him or just blocking him or better still just be knacking him until I meet the love of my life and block his ass. It’s really getting to me because this is the first person I have liked in a very hot minute. I buy him stuff a lot because I can’t be with someone and not just want to make them happy but he just keeps promising. I think he is punishing me for all the things his ex did to him. We are two different people. I don’t deserve any of it. He will apologize and tell me he likes me and I just hate that this shit is happening to me. Sometimes I find myself crying. I really want to move on it hurts so much.