So I’m a lazy person in relationships in terms of tolerance, so I’d rather not bother. I do my due checks and bounce if I’m not comfortable or leave if they started in the relationship and you refuse to change. So I checked my husband before we got married, he doesn’t follow ig thots, doesn’t bet and he’s a sound christian. Now 3years into the marriage, oga uses fehtish items to bathe for good luck, has a pseudo account for only those girls and now has up to 5 bet apps, the last 2 made me leave my ex. Want to leave, but family is making it seem like it ain’t reason enough. I have complained, no changes. I don’t think marriage is for me. I miss my former apartment and my peace, before I got married used to tell myself to enjoy my solitude while it lasted because humans have too much to deal with.