My friend and her husband have a verbal agreement in their wedding, they will get married, have a kid together, stay married for 2 years, if it works out they “renegotiate” for another couple of years, if its not working they can go their separate ways but share responsibility of the child. Why can’t it be that easy, the dating pool these days ehn, be like say person pour DD force inside to kill the ‘many fishes in the ocean’