I met someone last year at work, I wanted us to be just friends, he wanted relationship, so we started talking and right now it’s a situationship. I said I was celibate and he’s no exception, we removed sex and he asked me not to bill him 🤝. Men will be shouting what do you bring to the table but looking back as I let go, he has not added any value to me, I gift him on my will, give him good counsels, help with work, assisting in other ways, in cash too but I can’t pinpoint how he has been helpful to my life, all he does is talk about wanting to sleep with me and his needs, he is not even a good friend, and his thought process is weird. A mid 30s man! Yet I have to teach him so much! Dumb sapiosexual.