A situationship of mine (we see just for knacks) invited I and my friend for a family event and during the party, I and my friend requested to use the restroom. We were taken to not just the security’s toilet but a bad and ridiculously dirty toilet and I couldn’t even use. Instantly I regretted being there because why can’t you just let us use the guest toilet. I found it disrespectful or am I just overthinking