When Generosity Feels Like a Burden

I have this habit of giving money not just to anyone, but especially to bike men. I always feel bad for them, so when they state a fare, I rarely feel like negotiating. Even if the journey turns out to be farther than I expected, I just add extra money and let them go without a second thought. But lately, I’ve been trying to stop that. Now, I negotiate my fares and make sure to collect my change. It feels different, almost unnatural, but I know I need to find a balance between kindness and being mindful of my own needs.

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