I’m a really bossy girl, no bullshit person, always in check and in charge. I guess you get that from being the first child. It has affected my relationships overtime but I’m currently single and have this friend with benefits, still very bossy towards him and he does respect me so much. The only time I let my guard down is when he’s screwing me, lord he makes me apologize for being a bitch towards him and has me begging. Turns out I’m submissive in bed but dominant in life 😉. Then when it’s over I’m back to bossy girl.