I just remembered the time I went to visit one 🥷🏾 I thought I was in love with and he made me pay for everything (from my transport to our outings to petrol for his car) and I was foolish enough to not even know what was going on 😭, only for me to do background check and discover he had a bunch of women whom he was sleeping with and getting money from 😭😹. I refused to tell anybody this story till today because of shame 😹😹😹😹