I used to be fat, now I am slim. When I was big, slim men didn’t let me rest. Now I am slim huge men won’t let me rest. And when I explain to these huge men I am also huge in my DNA our kids will be massive so “no” for the sake of the future kids they feel I am lying or “shaming them”. Let me be with the men who liked me fat so that after childbirth if I add I will still be their spec.