I find it difficult to say no to people with most things in life, I’ll end up self-sacrificing instead of putting myself first. Noticed that when I was growing up, my Stepmom didn’t respect my boundaries & always guilt trip me or sometimes whip me for saying no & putting myself first in certain situations, now that I’m an adult, the guilt of telling people no has been ingrained in me too deep. Now that I know the root cause, I hate my biological mom & dad more for separating – this people were selfish to focus on their happiness than their kid’s, for real