I think I am a dominant, I once had the experience with someone and thoroughly enjoyed it. Now I am yet to have sex with my new partner but I don’t know if he would be willing to be my submissive, especially as its a ‘taboo’ topic with most men abi make I just continue with this new submissive I just found abi make I just comot eye and do vanilla. It’s just, what if I am not happy 
Sometimes I think mens egos are too fragile to handle that part, submitting is very freeing though;