My girl has this hard girl vibe thing, she’s always seeing being hard as a flex and it irritates me so bad. I’m a soft lover boy, I love my woman feminine please. She’s good and all of that but it’s so hard for her to take accountability, apologize, listen to me and follow my lead. She also can’t communicate. I’m not even controlling, I allow her to make decisions, I involve her in everything, I’m treating her as a wife and not a girlfriend but she believes she can do anyhow. She wants me to chase her for everything or anything. And one thing about me, once i’m tired, it’s either I leave or nothing. And no matter how you try, you won’t have access to me again. And she knows. I don’t know what’s hard to be down for your man, when it’s not as if I’m cheating or doing stuff against your boundary. I’m already getting tired.