I’m a lady and would be done with NYSC early next year. There’s this man that’s already saying he wants to buy asoebi next year, I know he means well but it annoys me so much. Like bro, how about you talk about me moving forward with my career or becoming financially stable instead of marriage. In this T-pain economy you want me to be a liability to a man. I need tips on how to be rude in a mindful and demure manner cause I think he needs to see my other side the next time he brings such up, tchewww!