How can I prioritize myself in my relationship without being the arsehole. It seems my boyfriend might be going through something due to his own inactions. I’m in a vulnerable state and I don’t want to lash out at him. If I ask for space then I’m the unsupportive girlfriend. But he does dumb shit all the time and I have to massage his feelings so he doesn’t feel more bad. This time I’m just over it and I want to prioritize me.