This thought just came to mind. How is life with independent ladies. I mean ladies who buy themselves stuff. You buy your phones, shoes, clothings, sub, etc. How is it with your men. I am one of those. I buy myself stuff because that’s how I am. I have heard people say it would be hard for me to get him to do stuff when we get married. Would he expect me to buy things in the house or for the kids. It is like this situation is me, who doesn’t know how to ask, and him who doesn’t know how to give, maybe unless asked.