I’m not sure if it’s my place to feel weird or concerned, but why don’t girls seem bothered when men 10 to 20 years older flirt with them. Many girls I’ve spoken to about losing their virginity say it was with a boyfriend way older. When I ask why, they say it felt safe since older men “know what they’re doing” and can take care of them. To me, it seems like they were taken advantage of. At my age, I can’t imagine being with an 18-year-old.