I just did introduction last month and asked my wife to move in with me so we can start planning our wedding. She stays in a different state. She blatantly refused because she feels she has a nice job she can’t pass up. She earns a lot more than I do but she’s married now, why can’t she just obey me and quit. She is even asking me to relocate to her city, she has a friend that can connect me with a better job that pays more than I earn. But if I do as she says, I might cease to be the man of the house.