I have this male fried that’s always flip flopping. So, we got to talk recently and I asked jokingly that I hope he’s dating now because he’s well into his 30s. He told me he was dating his ex. Now this particular ex, he’d said so many demeaning things about her to me and he’s always making mouth about how he’s going to marry the perfect woman. I asked him if he’d gone to meet her parents and he said he did that last month. When we talked about the situation in the evening, I asked him why he went back to something that he criticized with so much intensity. He said, they’re not really together like that and that he just went to see her parents for seeing sake. I adviced him to stop settling and that I know someone that fits his vision of a wife. When I showed the lady his picture, she wasn’t interested. I told him and his response was, he was just whining me. Let me quote his words “me and mimi we dey together, I just dey whine you, how I go date army woman”