I made this new rule of not going to a guys house till we’ve gone on a couple of dates and gotten to know each other and what exactly we want from each other. Since I made the rule, I have met 3 different guys on different occasions that showed interest in me but everything always ends when they invite me over instead of planning a date. I always insist on going on dates first, then they come up with different excuses till I get tired. Now I wonder if I should abandon my rule or stick to it.