My advise to the real men out there is before you spurge or spoil a girl make sure she earn the place, not all those ones that sit down and say they are fine girls they deserve to be spent on. Now I’m learning the hard way, all the ladies i spent on during talking stage are always problematic when you say first no to their request. They don’t love you they just love what you are providing, don’t use money to buy love because you won’t pay finish. Thank God I found a reasonable girl now.