I don’t think I can marry my boyfriend. He wants to propose soon and he’s ecstatic about it but I can’t live the rest of my life with him. He is a good man o, faithful and romantic but I need a man I can follow. I’m not the type of girl who is okay always telling a man what to do. I’ve lived with him for close to two years so I know. Two years of impulsive spending and never taking care of basic things like light, food, even internet. He earns over #3million monthly but every month he will still have to beg friends for money. No savings, bad investments, debts and getting scammed is the highlight of our relationship. I can’t o. I just can’t.